Ever wonder how  you became the mental puppet in the day and age where there are no strings attached. Jumping in relations while praying for the “Ship” it seems that somewhere in the job description of friends with benefits you penciled in “Within Time you will be mine”, when the fine print really said “IN TIME YOU WILL BE HURT”!

Women and Men are 2 totally different species. We don’t think, interpret or react in the same manner. Men see black and white to them it is exactly what we say it is. Women also see black and white but somewhere we feel that we can splash in colors of pink and purple. Example; When men Shone they shone, when women shone they become emotional attached and somewhere down the line start to “LOVE”.  Who added the strings??? Women did, simply because it is NOT in our nature to accept the relations without the ship. 

Nobody ever really wants to settle as the jump off but sometimes you’re forced the “Play the Role” you’re given.  Sexing without a title, free milk no cow purchase needed. Something is better then nothing… RIGHT?

WRONG!!! (Excuse me as I cyber-slap you) No one can force you to play a role. In order for the actress to be hired they have to show up for the audition. You’ve never seen Halle Berry in a movie and she is the not the “Star”  Not only is she over-qualified but she wouldn’t even waste her time going to a casting for that part. Why??? Simply because Halle knows her worth. So it’s time to learn yours.

No matter how “good” you think your “services” are, if you offer them for free you can’t start charging next week. Don’t start relations without a first class ticket on the ship. Things in black and white are not pink and purple. When people say well It is what it is, agree but know its from them NOT for you.

Reality Checks Don’t Bounce. 

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