What You Can Learn From The Guy She Shouldn’t Be Dating

Have you ever looked at someone’s relationship and could not
understand why those two people are together? You look at her and then you look
at him and just wonder why is she with him. In some cases, you cant see the
physical attraction. In other cases, you can see all the signs that say, “Leave
him, he’s not good for you. He doesn’t appreciate you.” Unfortunately, there’s
nothing you can do about it, except learn why she likes who she likes.

 

The Bad Boy

Reasons He’s Bad For Her:

Even when he’s not looking for trouble, it always seems to
find him. His jealousy is shown through aggressiveness towards her and other
men. In some cases, a lot of his decisions are made under the influence of
drugs or alcohol. He is constantly breaking the rules and the ones of  the relationship are no different.

 

Reasons She Likes Him:

She feels protected. She knows that at a drop of the dime he
will defend her honor. He exhibits no fear. He exudes confidence. The element
of danger that he brings is exciting. He is strong and likes to take charge.

 

What You Can Learn From Him:

Even independent women love men who can take control. Don’t
be a push over. Without being a brute, always be there to defend her. Be her
rock when she is weak. Be spontaneous. Also, women like an adrenaline rush so
do things with her that are extremely exciting such as parasailing, paint
balling, roller coaster riding, etc.

 

The Rich/Famous Guy

Reasons He’s Bad For Her:

It always isn’t determined where she exists on his list of
priorities. He always doesn’t trust those around him. His answer or resolution
to everything is pouring money into the situation. Because of his wealth and or
fame, he is always being tempted by the opposite sex.

 

Reasons She Likes Him:

He provides financial security. Her materialistic wants are
always met. He spoils her. Her lifestyle is the envy of other women. He is
successful. He has habits that lead to winning.

 

What You Can Learn From Him:

You should always take the opportunity to spoil you women.
Though your finances may not allow you to take her on European trips or
shopping sprees, spoil her by doing the little things. Surprise her with
flowers at work on a Tuesday just because. Break out of routines by scheduling
occasional dates. Be passionate and driven about something other than her.
Ambition is sexy.

 

The Playboy

Reason He’s Bad For Her:

Life to him is always one big party. He’s always on the
scene because he has to be seen. His motto: The More Women, The Better. He is
self-centered and believes that everything is about him.

 

Reasons She Likes Him:

He looks good. His aura is sexy. In high school, virgins
wanted to give up their virginity to him and as an adult, women can’t resist
his charm. He knows how to have fun. He’s in to fashion as much as she is.

 

What You Can Learn From Him

Pay careful attention to your image. Grooming is a must,
dress nice and wear nice shoes. She will look good for you and you should look
good for her. Maintain a healthy lifestyle by watching what you eat and
exercising regularly. Be charming. Kiss her for no reason at all. Look into her
eyes when you compliment her. Be more outgoing and engage in conversations with
her.

 

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