Tami Roman is throwing an ultimatum at the producers of “Basketball Wives”. Either Meeka Claxton does not come back next season, or she walks.

Tami, now ex-wife of NBA star Kenny Anderson says, the straw that broke the reality star’s back came when Meeka sued her over a fight that went down in Italy last month.

Tami acknowledges “things got out of hand” with Meeka and feels “embarrassed” that things got violent and was willing to let bygones be bygones … until Meeka decided to sue.

Now Tami tells says, “I will NOT work with someone who is suing me, when they know what this situation is all about. I want to be clear, if she returns in any way, form or fashion I do not plan on participating.”

A rep for Meeka had no comment.